I'll admit, all the "I lost my ring and it showed up X days/weeks/months/years later" or "it eventually showed up beneath/behind/under the couch/fridge/car seat/bed" stories were starting to get to me, because for all intents and purposes, Simon's ring was gone. And it has had me in a funk all week.
Today is Simon's day off and yesterday I booked a surprise lunch for us at a restaurant we've wanted to try for a long time, probably as long as we've had the small people in our lives when dining out became practically impossible. I thought when we were done, we could go ring shopping. I had mum teed up to babysit.
But he thought he'd have one more crack with the metal detector. He dressed more appropriately this time. Took gloves, and a small metal rake. And a thermos of hot tea. I cancelled the lunch.
I called him twice, he was despondent. He couldn't find it. He sounded close to giving up, and cold, despite the extra layers.
I rang four local police stations, in the vain hope someone walking their dog or some kid at baseball practice had found it during the week, and had done the right thing by handing it in. No such luck.
Then when I was just about to ring and say to give up, come home I get this:
A picture message, which certainly spoke a thousand words.
Thanks for all the concern and great suggestions in the last post. Should he lose it again, we have some great ideas of what we can do to make a new ring special! But for now, I think we'll reschedule the lunch but make an urgent trip to the jewellers to have the ring re-sized. And perhaps I'll suggest he no longer wears it when participating in organised sport on the weekends!
So yes, I think we will be able to look back on the day we first looked for the ring and smile. And laugh.
But damn, I wish everything precious in life that is lost could show up again like this bloody ring.
Happy weekend, folks.
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Yay! Yay! I'm SO pleased that Simon found it! Sometimes persistence pays off.
ReplyDeleteAnd yes, I also wish that everything precious that we've lost could, one day, show up again.
Amen, I wish everything that precious was back like this ring!
ReplyDeleteSo glad this is a story you can look back and laugh at. So glad this very special ring that your husband wore every time he held each one of your children on the day they were born is back on his finger <3
That's the best news, Sally! So glad to hear it. I hope you both have a lovely weekend marvelling at today's good luck. xx
ReplyDeleteHappy Day! Very glad to hear it :)
ReplyDeleteThis made me cry. One precious thing returned and so many that can't be, but still that one...
ReplyDeleteI have been thinking about something you wrote a little while ago about daffodils coming up. I forget sometimes that our seasons are opposite. Since that reminder, every time I look at my daffodil tattoo for Anja, I have thought of Hope, too.
Wonderful news! I'm so glad he found it. And yes, I wish everything could be restored to us.
ReplyDeleteHappy dance. Yes, that is good. Well done world for behaving right :)
ReplyDeleteSo glad it did have a happy ending. So many life events witnessed by that ring. It's just a piece of metal, yes, but symbolises so much more.
ReplyDeleteNow go and enjoy another lunch, and get all loved up all over again!
Gorgeous rings shot in that last post too xox
Amen again, this time on Blogger. I loved reading the story that Instagram couldn't tell.
ReplyDeleteExactly what Josh said. I whooped with joy at the instagram pic, but this post has me crying with relief...and sadness too for all that we have lost that can not be found. x
ReplyDeleteHoly crow!!!!!! AWESOME! Way to go Simon! So glad he found it! xo
ReplyDeleteThis made me so happy--just a thing, a ring, but so much more. And finding lost things gives my soul a little jolt.
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Smiling with a twinkly tear in my eye xx
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